My most recent ex boyfriend, Joe, really irked me Sat night.
He showed up at the concert where my boyfriend and I were -- Ok, well, that was to be expected. I knew he would most likely be there.
But he and his new girlfriend moved into a spot right next to me and my boyfriend. He must have seen us standing there as he approached the front. But then they move to a spot right next to us? So I find myself dancing directly next to my ex's new girlfriend. After a while, I felt really awkward. I was trying to talk to my boyfriend, but I felt my ex looking at us, so I suggested we move. My boyfriend also noted my ex was looking at him, or rather staring at him.
So I feel like Joe did this on purpose to maybe show off his new girlfriend in front of me? Why else move to a spot right next to us? I don't know why it irks me so much, but I felt like our space was invaded. And I thought it was disrespectful of him to do this. I would never have done something like that myself. If I saw my ex at a show, I would be sure to stand somewhere away from him and his girlfriend, out of respect.
Now Joe and I did not have a bad ending. It was very amicable in fact. We are still friends on Facebook, and he still comments on some of my posts. He does see all the pics I post of my boyfriend and I, which are a lot. But I thought the whole situation was strange.
My boyfriend thought it was jealousy on his part. Perhaps it was, I have no idea. It was just weird, and I wished they hadn't moved right up next to us so we could have stayed up in the front with all our crew.
Not a huge deal and not something to obsess over, naturally, but it irked me enough to write about it & get it out. I am really just venting.
Last edited by Anonymous40643; May 14, 2018 at 07:57 AM.
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