View Single Post
 
Old May 14, 2018, 11:16 AM
kaorikuran's Avatar
kaorikuran kaorikuran is offline
Junior Member
 
Member Since: Apr 2018
Location: Italy
Posts: 21
Quote:
Originally Posted by ShadowGX View Post
As healing4me suggested, it just sounds like he was exploiting you and using you. Toxic for sure.

One bright side is that it seems like you avoided an abusive relationship. If you go through and read different stories of abuse cases they almost always say similar in regards to "sometimes he was the sweetest guy in the world" - this is what kept them coming back to their abuser. I'm glad you seem to know now that this is clearly him manipulating you and you put and end to it. Now you just need to keep him out of your life.
It's what I've been doing and what I intend to do for the rest of my life. Never again, ahah.
It's scary to think about what would've happened if I hadn't ran away from him. The perspective of an abusive relationship is surely the most plausible... Luckily, it seems that at least in these situations, I can see when things are just getting too crazy.