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Old May 14, 2018, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted by kaorikuran View Post
Yes, with time I've come to understand that too.
And I've luckily managed to completely disappear from his life, literally. It's been something like 2 years since last contact.
I don't understand what your last question means... Could you please explain it? ;;;
I'm glad to read that there is distance from that situation.

I asked if the label mattered more than the recovery because your op is it toxic or abuse.

To me, so long as you are on the road to recovery from this and are away from it, then labelling it seems less important. Not that it minimizes your experience, because what you went through sounds awful.
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kaorikuran
Thanks for this!
kaorikuran