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Originally Posted by happycheeks
Wow that is toxic. I think it's abuse. I can relate to some of it. Has he ever tried to contact you during the no contact? You should leave this guy behind in the past. I was thinking if it has been two years, are you still obsessing or has he contacted you? You're probably questioning whether it's abuse because you were gas lighted by him. My "situationship" was toxic and emotionally abusive.
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I'm sorry that you can relate.
Yes, he has tried to contact me, but I've never replied. I don't want to check anymore, too.
I'm not sure if I'm still obsessing, but even if I was, it's surely not in the 'i-want-him-back" kind of way. I don't easily let go of the past, even if I'm walking away from it, especially if there is a sort of inconclusive situation... I'm not good with words, I hope you see what I'm trying to say. ;;;
I wasn't really gas lighted by him; at that time I didn't even know what was a toxic relationship. Now I'm able to see all the red flags (sometimes even when they're not there; thank you, paranoia), thanks to him and some research, that made me bring up my question. I really didn't know that something like that could happen...
I'm so sorry it was abusive.
I wouldn't wish that on anybody. Even though I don't know the story, I support you and hope you are okay now.
