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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
Dear T,
I know I said we were good at the end of session, but really I don't think we are. I think you're somehow unaware that I already have transference toward you. Even if you said you were willing to work with it...I can't get the thing out of my head where you said you'd feel creeped out if the stone was about you instead of the safe space. Like...wondering if we need to terminate. Which would make me really sad. But I can't deal with this again...
No love, don't worry!
LT
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..."creeped out" ?? that's a s****y thing for a T to say...
Sometimes, I want to whack him upside the head for you.
There's nothing WRONG with it being about him, btw. It's perfectly NORMAL for a person to BE your "safe space." It's perfectly normal to feel attachment feelings, good attachment feelings, towards other people.
Ugh. I'm mad at him for you.