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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
Dear T,
I know I said we were good at the end of session, but really I don't think we are. I think you're somehow unaware that I already have transference toward you. Even if you said you were willing to work with it...I can't get the thing out of my head where you said you'd feel creeped out if the stone was about you instead of the safe space. Like...wondering if we need to terminate. Which would make me really sad. But I can't deal with this again...
No love, don't worry!
LT
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Oh LT I can't believe he said something like that....... It also seems to me he is not entirely comfortable with transference (even though he says he is). I do think he is trying but it seems like he is failing a lot of times which can't be good for you. It is such a difficult tightrope to walk at the best of times with the best-trained therapists. You need someone who is 110% comfortable with it. There is nothing wrong with holding the stone was about him, the safe space or anything else for that matter. He NEEDS to be comfortable with that for you to feel safe.