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Originally Posted by eskielover
Wow, any guy backing me into a wall & asking/demanding sex no matter how much I may think I liked him would get a knee where it hurts & if he ever showed his face around me again would regret it. That is very disrespectful to you in the first place & no matter what his psych problem is, he had & probably never will have respect for women. He was using you for his wants & needs & you were probably just another notch on his belt.
Unfortunately you consented in the long run which is why it wasn't considered to be anything worse than just what it was. Therapy might help you to avoid behaviors that are disrespectful to yiu at the beginning & not get sucked in the way this happened in the future
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Ahah, usually I work that way too. Unfortunately, this was a different case...
Yes, I definitely was another notch on his belt.
The "side chick"
I've thought about therapy, but... I don't know. It's been a while since this whole thing happened, and I'm way more aware of what is okay and what is too much. I'm also more... paranoic, I think. Sometimes it's unnecessary, but at least it's a defense against potential red flags. The hard way teaches a lot... 🤷