I dont understand why the job is do important before yall get married. People all over the world get married without a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. Love is love and waiting for the right income is just delaying yalls happiness in being married. What if sometbing happened like he gets sick or dies befor he gets the job? I just lost a friend at 35 years old due to a massive heart attack. Life is short Do what makes you happy and dont delay on what you want. Also stop worrying about what others have or doing. That will just upset u more