I need guidance. I met a guy on OkCupid tonight (or rather, we talked on OkC). He's exactly my type. I found out quite soon into the convo that his gf of 6 months broke up w/ him yesterday. He asked me to come over to his house. he even gave me his house number and wanted me to come over tonight. I was like hell no. We were both heavily talking about sex through text. We were supposed to meet tomorrow for coffee and he also wanted me to come over to his house tomorrow, though he said "no pressure." I ended up texting him later tonight saying that it really felt like a revenge date / revenge hookup. It just didn't sit with me well anyway. Like it really didn't sit with me well. Why I had a hard time saying "No," I don't know. But I did have a hard time, and I did say no. He said it wasn't revenge. But whatever. I just need some guidance. Am I doing the right thing? I am doing what feels right for me. Even though it's hard. He CAN'T be over this chick in less than 24 hrs. She dumped him. Not the other way around. I was actually thinking about her too, and how she'd feel. I've been in that position before. I told him I'd meet him in a couple weeks if he was still interested. I don't even know. I need guidance, lol.