I think talking heavily about sec the day you “meet” someone online is troubling. That’s not a healthy way to begin any kind of lasting relationship. That’s just a booty call. If that’s what you’re looking for, that’s fine. But if you’re interested in a relationship, I recommend refraining from talking about sex at all until after you’ve met in person and established a certain level of interest in one another. Anyone who brings up sexual right away I would red flag and delete.