Yes I agree that 99.999% of people care little about what is going on in our lives...they care more about their own. But to get what we want & need we have to be able to access resources, meaning we must trust that some people have good intentions and something to offer. Otherwise continuing to endeavour to go it alone, we can very well become frustrated bitter and lost. You don't have to take every piece of advice as Gospel, you still get to choose what to take on, and what to toss in the trash.