Are there any? I'm sick of reading profiles on OKC saying 'no baggage' or similarly intolerant statements. I need someone who understands my need for my own space, difficulties with touch and physical contact, tendency to get anxious, especially about abandonment, low mood and introspectiveness at times, but also who would value my intelligence, sensitivity, gender fluidity, pro feminist values, and capacity/need for love and commitment. I feel a dedicated website where I can meet like minded people would be the way forward (somewhere like here but with dating).