Hi. Good morning. Ok I'm skimming through these and haven't read them completely except Scorpiosis's and divine's first one. But a little about last night and my knowledge of that sort of stuff: I know all that. I think that's partly why it felt so off in my gut. Last night I was in quite a weird mood. I still have a UTI, and have a lot of anxiety about the med I'm on for it. Had a reaction to the last one I was on. (I don't know how it relates to this, oh, I guess I'm just feeling not myself, moody, and vulnerable). I think I also...it just felt good for a moment, to talk about sex and the idea of having sex (its been a while for me). In a sense, it was what I needed. Then I came to my senses after. I feel a lot better about saying no today. The dude is completely wanting a booty call because his gf broke up with him. Its too bad he can't see it. Or be honest about it at least. I feel good though. I know I made the right decision for me and I feel relieved.

edit: Ok I'm caught up with replies. Thank you so much everyone. Yes, I was incredibly uncomfortable and feeling huge red flags despite my attraction. Also I'd never ever go to someone's house I didn't know. That's just dangerous and a safety issue.