Ps: In terms of him sharing with me that his gf broke up w/ him yesterday. He didn't just come forth with it. The way he was talking, made me wonder and think something was up. So I asked him if he just got out of a relationship. basically, he'd answer what I asked. Which was a few questions about it. He said he knew it was a red flag.

I don't know why but I feel torn. I mainly don't want to message him. He messaged me earlier this morning and said good morning. I haven't responded. He told me yesterday that his gf broke up w/ him bc she loved him but wasn't in love with him. (that's pretty classic case of becoming disillusioned by a romance that has lost its "newness." People do it all the time). He said he also kind of saw it coming due to the fact that she wasn't as invested in the relationship as he was.

Whoa. Just the things I'm saying. It seems pretty obvious that this is rebound stuff. And red flaggy. I wonder if I feel torn because this is some kind of trigger for me. Not like an I'm upset trigger. But in my past, I have experienced a LOT of....I just didn't know how to respect myself, and I went for guys who....made me feel sad, and for whatever reason weren't suitable for me, but that I was sexually attracted to.

I need to tap out of this. And it feels a little difficult(!!!) due to past patterns. But I'm tapping out.

Would it be better to just not respond? Or to tell him best wishes and bye? I think that if he doesn't say anything else, I will just not respond.