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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
absolutely did the right thing. a day after a break up and you're inviting another lady over to your place? Pfft. besides the fact inviting someone over to your place before even getting to know them is not smart on his part - I assume you weren't talking during his 6 month relationship which would mean you'd talked for all of a day.
you say he's exactly your type of guy but Ill be honest. You cannot know that yet. AT best even if he were truly your "type" his quickness to drop one and get into something with another should give you the heebie jeebies and make you want to run anyway.
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Oh my gosh yes. Thank you so much for this. I do have the complete heebie jeebies about him in regard to his ex. It feels completely disrespectful to me, to her (and I don't care that she's the one who broke up w/ him, I've been on that side and being the one to do the break up is just as hard. really felt like revenge thing to me with him).
Thank you. And you may be right. He's not my type if he's going to act that way. When I say he's my type, I guess I mean physically. But yeah, he was talking about his ex yesterday, like she didn't mean anything and that he was over her. I was even telling him that maybe it was still salvageable with her, lol. And he was like, no. But from what it sounds like, like what he'd told me, he was more invested in the relationship that her. Complete bs rebound liar. Even if he's lying to himself, he's lying to me too. Whatever. I'm not messaging that tool again.