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Originally Posted by golden_eve
Yes, do tap out of this. Whether it's your past speaking or not enough self-respect, now is the time to bolster your self-respect and tell yourself that you deserve and want better (if you want more). This guy wanted a booty call -- ask yourself, is that what you're after? If so, then by all means proceed. But if not and if you are after a real relationship - forget this man. He is not it. He will use you and will most likely hurt you if you want more. He most likely is very hurt by what happened with his gf. A rebound man is never a wise choice, unless you're looking to just hook up. Again, just my two cents because I care!  |
Thank you GE. I appreciate this. So, I may have used him a little too. I didn't think of it that way yesterday, but...I was just like, "**** it" I want to cyber with this guy who is totally on the rebound who I just met. That's my choice. But at the same time, it is quite true that I am looking for a real relationship and nothing less. And my emotions get involved, and I do respect myself. And my gut basically won't let me go further, thank god! I just got caught up in the moment. What a pos. Any who, I'm over it. Lol. Weirded out
and moving on!