
May 15, 2018, 03:23 PM
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Hmmm, well, last night's idea was very last minute and he was driving back into town. We had pretty much agreed on tonight, and he texted me today asking me how late I was working. To which I responded a time, and also suggested we meet up for happy hour at a specific place.
He responded that he had to run something out to one of his development sites, which is kinda far away, and he would know about time in a couple of hours. I texted him a few minutes ago and asked how he was doing on time. He said it was rough and he would call in 20 minutes.
So, well, I don't know what he's going to say, but if he can't make it, I think it may be time to cut the chord. I could maybe see trying one more time for tomorrow, but at this point I'm moving things around in my own schedule for him, and if he can't commit, for whatever reason, then I need to move on.
I'm fine with him being too busy, if he would just pick a time when he's not going to be busy and commit to that. I don't like rearranging my own very busy schedule only to get blown off. Time is money for me.
If he needs to just wait until the weekend, he needs to just say so. You know?
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
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