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Originally Posted by healingme4me
By him calling, at least in my mind, it answers the question of interest in you.
It's not like you have sat around waiting. I'm not so sure writing him off before having that first date is what I would personally do. Some fields do require a lot of travelling, ergo traffic delays, etc.
Will be curious to see if he follows through on tonight, however. The night is still young on the east coast...
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Well, no, tonight got cancelled, but it's because that work errand ran late and he got caught in the rain, and he said he looked terrible. He actually texted me after we spoke, like 30 minutes and was like, I was actually thinking if I could make this work. And I reminded him he looked like a wet dog, so we should just wait.
We're going drinks tomorrow instead.
You're right, I haven't sat around waiting, but I have now re-arranged my schedule twice. So keeping the date tomorrow will say a lot to me.
I don't mind that people are busy. I am busy. But if I give you time on my calendar, I expect you to respect that I made time for you. If he can't keep commitments, even a date, because he over commits, that's a red flag to me.
So, we shall see what happens.
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