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Originally Posted by seesaw
Well, no, tonight got cancelled, but it's because that work errand ran late and he got caught in the rain, and he said he looked terrible. He actually texted me after we spoke, like 30 minutes and was like, I was actually thinking if I could make this work. And I reminded him he looked like a wet dog, so we should just wait.
We're going drinks tomorrow instead.
You're right, I haven't sat around waiting, but I have now re-arranged my schedule twice. So keeping the date tomorrow will say a lot to me.
I don't mind that people are busy. I am busy. But if I give you time on my calendar, I expect you to respect that I made time for you. If he can't keep commitments, even a date, because he over commits, that's a red flag to me.
So, we shall see what happens.
Seesaw
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I get what you mean about not liking rescheduling other life events, friends, etc., to be left with a cancellation.
Hopefully, he'll make it work out, tomorrow. And hopefully he's not kidding himself about actually being ready to date others if his life is overscheduled.