Yeah, I mean, I totally get being busy and needing to schedule even a week out. That doesn't bother me. But my day is so full, and I'm not waiting around for anyone. I make plans. So I just expect people to be reasonable about their own schedules.

On another note, I keep getting these texts from another guy, usually around 9-10pm, asking "wyd?" which means "what are you doing?" And I'm typically already doing whatever I've planned for the evening, and this guy is always asking me to do drinks last minute, like very last minute. Not like, hey what about tonight or in a couple of hours, but like, right now!

I don't wait around waiting to making plans with people. I make my plans. If he even texted me like in the afternoon and wanted to do happy hour, I could make something work, but I'm so irritated that like he keeps asking me if I'm available at the very last minute. I figure he's just trying to get a booty call or something, or that he texts me when he's bored. I've stopped responding now.