This guy you are having a hard time meeting up with sounds like he has a very critical position if the moment demands in his company that he really can't just postpone until tomorrow. Guess this is a true test to see if you can tolerate the demands of his business while having the own demands of yours. Sounds like flexibility will be needed if it is this diffucult to coordinate a first date.

Sounds like if he has kids every other weekend & his own company that he has some high priorities already existing in his life & probably used to doing things when he determines they need done. It may take him some time to get used to working another priority (you) into his life. Patterns do take time to change especially if someone hasn't had to be concerned about that for awhile.

It will be interesting to see how this works out.