I can’t stand it when people cancel last minute either. I’d take it as a red flag that this guy is struggling to keep the date. Even if he is interested, some people are just incredibly flaky. I actually ended a relationship once because my girlfriend just couldn’t be trusted to keep plans. It wasn’t that she didn’t WANT to— something just always came up or she miscalculated her time management. At first I thought that it was disinterest but I eventually realized that’s just her— she does it with her family, friends, etc. So I hope this guy shows up tomorrow, but I would worry going forward that he’s just somebody who struggles to keep plans. I know you value your time and you’re busy, so it’s not worth it to put up with that!

I’m glad you stopped responding to “wyd?” guy. He’s clearly looking for a booty call or a distraction when he’s bored. No one who’s looking for a real relationship acts like that. Yuck. And I can’t stand text speak (but that’s probably the professor in me).