purely in my own world and my T, whenever i am feeling stuck (which is near constant), I am convinced my T is ready to boot me. She never is, and always explains to me that she is with me wherever I am at. She DID let it slip last night that it might not be at the same pace that she is used to (lol, i am extremely slow, i know), but as long as i feel like i'm being helped, that is all that matters.