<font color="purple">I do have different personalities and it can reek havoc on my sex life... Sometimes I have to allow one of the others thru in order to get thru it... other times it is one of the others and they suffer silently... sometimes I have high desires to try new things which my husband doesnt and I do fantasize a lot... and many times i feel disgusted with myself for thinking or wanting to try something or even after doing something... like oh this isnt "right" or normal... or am I perv? Course it doesnt help that when I share some things with my husband about my thoughts and fantasies he tells me i am sick... such as wanting to try a threesome (me, hubby, and another female)... I think for me the experimenting is finding an emotional connection with sex and my partner as well as plain old having fun and spicing things up... IDK...

I dont think you are strange at all... I think it is normal to want to try new things, but much of the time we dont act on it b/c of fear due to much of how society views certain sexual acts... </font>