I’d say when one is too busy to date, he probably shouldn’t date. But honestly even busy peopke can schedule dates. Maybe infrequent and shorter dates but still it could be planned

When I joined dating site I realized I had no time to date and wanted to cancel but they wouldn’t let me without making me pay all 6 months. So I decided to stick around a bit and I’ve met my now husband right away.

At the time I worked two jobs and we worked opposite schedules (he works nights and i work days) and we lived an hour an a half to two hours apart so I told him I can see him only every other week for few hours. He said it would be fine. But we planned and stuck to it, didn’t cancel. Eventually things changed and we were able to see each other more often. But the bottom line: people can plan and keep plans or they shouldn’t date