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Old Feb 09, 2008, 01:39 PM
Maple Maple is offline
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fayerody said:
Maple, I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. Grieving is different for each individual. When my parents died, it took a long time for me to quit thinking about them on a daily basis. (Thinking about them in a sad way)

I told myself one day that I needed to hold to the joyful things about Mom and Daddy and that helped me tremendously.

I know that you must have some very meaningful and special memories of your husband. Try to remember one or two things that you did together, once a day. Then add more memories to your list.

I hope I've helped you a little bit. I will keep you in my thoughts........xoxoxo pat

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Thank You for your thoughts. That's just it there are so many many good memories. The house was our house but now it is just
me. I have tried changing some things with the house. It did help to
a point. My son lives in another state far, thank God my daughter
only lives a short ways. But they are talking about moving to where
my son lives and that is getting me upset.

If they move they want me to follow. The thought of leaving my life
behind is getting to me also. I guess I just have to wait when the time comes that will be the decision maker, and because of my ill
health I do need my family by me.

Maple