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Old May 16, 2018, 02:12 PM
crushed_soul crushed_soul is offline
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Maybe, maybe not. Whether or not there is change, "improvement" and so on seems to depend on a variety of factors in general, but the factors and number of factors seems to differ for people in general.

After much research for my personal nonsense, there does not seem to be a specific length of time for such recovery, change, healing and so forth. Please, consider not confining you, your recovery and so on to a specific duration of time, expectations and more.

There has been no contact between me and my ex for almost four months, but I am still very much broken and destroyed as is my life. During these four months, I have been physically alive, but how I have been is as if I were not. Moreover, distractions for me only seem to be that, distractions. They do not necessarily help, but they might (for you.) I only mention me and my nonsense as evidence (in addition to the evidence in research) for my perspectives expressed in this post on if "it gets better or not."

Back to your question, I am not going to consciously mince words, consciously deceive you and so on. Depending upon the circumstances and multitude of aspects that are particular to you, your situation, "it" may or may not "get better."



I wish for you to be well, to heal, to be as you choose to be (whether it is to move on or not) and to become the change that you choose to be.