I said Sometimes, but is never the focus of our discussions. I got much more out of talking about my own issues that affected me in everyday life, things I could not resolve easily, or my analyses of these problems and my role in them. Possible solutions. Discussing the relationship with the T was sometimes interesting but I usually felt afterward that I just distracted myself from real issues and it was a waste of time and money. But I wasn't in therapy for relationship problems. I sometimes used the experience with the T to highlight something, as example, etc but not merely for its own sake.