I voted I would like to talk about it, but I'm scared of it. Whenever the topic of our relationship comes up, my T says it's a distraction for other things. I feel like she minimizes my feelings, not on purpose though. For me, I feel like my therapy relationship has a lot to do with my relationships outside of therapy. If I feel really good, safe and connected with my T, then my relationships outside of therapy feel the same. If I feel the opposite with my T, I tend to not participate in relationships outside of therapy. Not on purpose, but it's a pattern I've noticed.