I don't know if dating relationships work that way. I don't think that finding Mr/Ms/Mx Right can be the yardstick by which measure your success in therapy. There is too much luck involved. Not settling for an asshole is a measure of success in therapy.

I mean her platitudes would drive me bonkers. But what can you do really except build the best, fullest, most awesome life you're able to build yourself and keep getting out there?

Build a life that is so great that you'll be okay without a partner. When your life is great and your friends are great, you can afford to be picky because you're looking for someone to add to great not rescue you from miserable.

My worry about a life coach is that it isn't an accredited profession. Anyone can do it. If they harm you, there's no licencing body to protect you.