Not making too much of this, she invalidates your story when she tells you to forgive, this is your story and your pain and you get to do with it what you choose, you "forgive" in your own time if at all.

I'm so sorry, can you look for a new T?

This T is not holding your feelings in any kind of regard but instead trying to find a solution to them and asserting her solution is the right way. Btw if she said to me what she said to her friend, I don't think we would be friends anymore.