My friend goes to therapy with a t whom I know has a very dodgy reputation.
I try not to let what I know interfere with what we talk about but my friend is bringing her concerns about her t to me a lot lately and I am finding it hard to keep a balanced view her.
This week my friend was very upset as her t had contacted her ex to ask to meet up. Not in a professional manner like client and t but in another capacity. T asked him to do something in her house. Of course my friend was distraught and wondered what ts motivation was behind it.
I am horrified by the whole concept and I don’t want to say “I told you so” I want to be supportive and so I want to get a second opinion of this. I am over reacting by being horrified or does this see appropriate to you?