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Originally Posted by koru_kiwi
reading through some of the responses that people have left so far, i do wonder if those who have a T who does not focus so much on the relationship actually have had a more positive experince of therapy or are more satisfied with their overall outcomes of therapy.
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I voted that we talk about the relationship all the time but I am very satisfied my therapy and the outcomes so far. The general relationship issues was the main reason I went to therapy.
I do not discuss much of my real life or life goals if you will with my T because these are things I can handle very well on my own and I don't need any assistance in that. However, before starting therapy I had never been psychologically close to anyone - I did not even know that such a thing exists. I understood that for some reason I don't click with people but I had no idea why. On some level my relationship with my DH seemed ok but he asked me why there is no closeness in our relationship and I have absolutely no idea what he was talking about. I don't think there is any other way for learning these things from zero than by doing it and at the same time talking about it to understand what is happening and what we are doing.