This morning our boy triggered us to anger by having his girlfriend sleep over which IS NOT allowed for any excuse....we started snowballing...one said another adult to support, one said disrespect, another said broke the rules, another felt violated, another.....as hard as we tried to not freak out....it didn’t go well.

I hate feeling like a weirdo, a side show freak, someone to minimalize as crazy...so embarrassingly out of control...