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Well, and with me, it was not something i could refute. He was the one making me that and then labeling me a slut. So it must have been true. Ironically, he thought i had sex with all my boyfriends and would lecture me about getting pregnant and how he would disown me. I never had sex with my boyfriends because i would dissociate and become a small child. broke up many relationships. hard to believe some people (my dad/abuser) can be such a**holes.

i agree with the post that suggested that maybe yor mom called you that to take the real blame off herself for not protecting you. That is horrible and neglectful - to know about it and not stop it. Nearly as bad as the abuse itself.
Many hugs.
kiya