Hello hishou: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral!
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I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.
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I'm sorry I can't really offer much of anything with regard to your particular concerns. I'm just an old recluse. So I don't have much of anything to say when it comes to issues related to friendship.
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Hopefully there will be some other members, here on PC, who will have some insights they can offer. My best wishes to you...