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Originally Posted by downandlonely
CluckyBear I can really relate to what you're saying. I'm stereotypically attractive with big boobs. Guys are always hitting on me. I don't want to have sex either, but it often ends up going farther than I want because I get to a point where I don't feel like I can stop. I often feel like I'm just a sex object to them. I don't have any advice, just wanted to let you know I understand what you're going through.
Are you on anti-depressants by any chance? Those can really kill your sex drive. I've been on them since before puberty so I don't know if it's the meds or if I really have no sex drive.
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I decided to go against antidepressants, it's like an extended effort for me to explain to my family "what's wrong with me" when I don't know myself. I wouldn't want them to think general ideas of how they perceive mental illnesses.
I'm usually emotionally great, it's other people and some environments that make me feel bad and kill my drive.
It's reassuring for me that you feel this way too, I've never talked to anyone about it because of the way people present themselves to society always makes me think it's just me who's missing pieces.