I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks, we've been on a few dates and to be totally honest, I didn't really feel anything after the first date - there were a few things that made me realise he wasn't 100% right for me but then he messaged me afterwards reassuring me that he wants to see me again/how much we clicked/how understanding he is of my anxiety.

Well, I thought if he thinks so highly of me and our situation, why not give this a chance?? So I did and up until our last date, he had been talking to me about the possibilities of our future, all the things we should do together and how patient he'll be until I'm ready for sex with him.

SO after our last date, he tells me he really enjoyed seeing me and how much he looked forward to seeing me again. We arranged another date for 2 days later and after not hearing from him all day, I asked if he was still up for it - he cancelled on me because his nan was rushed to hospital and he had to go and see her on the day of our date. That's fine, I understand - but after not being on the dating site whilst we'd been dating, he's coincidentally back on it.

I'm taking it he's lost interest. He must have lied about/exaggerated how fondly he thought of me for it to suddenly all disappear and prepare him to go back on the dating site - presumably looking for new dates - so quickly??

I've decided not to contact him. If he wants to get in touch/reach out, he can. But I just don't understand what could have happened?? Also, how is the dating site of any importance to him whilst his grandma is hospitalised but he's ok to not talk to me (the person he's been dating)?

I just wanna know how he lost that interest, assuming it was really there to begin with. And if so, how has anyone who's been in a similar situation moved on from it??