I understood that you no longer planned on replying to wyd guy, but you said in your post you had been responding by telling him “no.” That’s what I was responding to. You also said he was texting you, so I thought you likely gave him your phone number at one point. Maybe when you were deciding whether to meet? Or maybe when you saying “texting” you are referring to direct messages through the site? Perhaps I misunderstood, but i just thought— from my own experience— that not responding at all to people unless there is interest, and not exchanging numbers until after meeting (to weed out people) might be a time saver. I know some people who feel obligated to return all messages out of politeness, and was just saying *if* you felt that way, it really is common (and not rude) to not respond if there’s no interest. But since you wanted to hear his response to you, I hope it satisfied your curiosity.