He then tried to convince me that we should just "see where it goes..." Um, that's player speak for I just want to use you. And I responded that I'm not going to date someone with the hopes that I can change their mind on something so important to me. And I wished him luck and ended that conversation. I wasn't expecting anything, certainly, just thought that was an interesting interchange to share here. In fact, I only responded to him at all to see how he would respond to the rejection based on that. It was sort of an experiment. I find that people who say "Well, let's see what happens" really have no intent of committing. In my experience, men who say they are looking for new friends and will see if anything comes out of that, usually mean they are looking for a hookup or something short term, FWB, that they don't have to commit to.


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