Hey everyone,
I was really looking for an answer on google, but I haven’t found any topic like this, so I decided to ask by my own, and what I should do.
I am in a relationship, which is very good, healthy and amazing for a pretty long time now. My boyfriend he is very kind, always helping and the one that has a lot of friends.
I am not a very jealous person, but some things happen. He started communicating with this girl, that got literally OBSESSED with him. My boyfriend, as I said is very kind and he just talks to everybody, so he can’t really say anything. But the thing is, that this girl is soo clingy, tries to go everywhere with him, when posting even stories on Instagram she always films him, upload photos also with him and if not, the photo somehow needs to be related to him. And it drives me nuts!!! I told him that she really likes him and that she is just not okay. But he thinks that she is just being friendly, which actually she is, but not only me, even other friends of our circle clearly doesn’t like her for her clinginess (idk how to write that ) and sees that she is getting obsessed with him. Not only me, but my boyfriend’s best friend is annoyed by her, because we all feel like she wants him and wants to take everyone’s best place.
I mean all of this might sound pretty silly for someone, I am and adult and not a 12 year old, but I don’t like it and have no idea what to do.
Have you people had any similar situations and what advices could you give me? I can’t even go to the internet normally because I might see her uploading something with him again….
And also, I have met her already, but when she sees me she literally ignores me and doesn’t even say hello. Like jeeez, it is crazy!
Anyway, please tell me how to slowly remove her from my bf’s life and I mean not like texting her and telling that she is crazy and that she should back off I really want her gone out of his life and me and my friend have no clue where to start, to make my bf see that she is clearly not okay and being too clingy and crazy.