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Originally Posted by seesaw
Well, I don't respond to everyone by any means. But he gave me a nice, sweet compliment, and also seemed like a nice guy in his profile. So I thought I would be polite and say thank you and also gently let him down.
It was interesting to see the game playing happen. This is all really a social experiment...lolAbout wyd guy, yes, I am amused, BUT, I feel bad that he keeps texting, and like, maybe I should outright say "hey, I'm never going to do something at the very last second with someone I've never met. If you were trying to plan a real date, I'd be responding, but you're only messaging me when it's obvious that you're bored. So just take me off your list of possible hook-ups."
I dunno....thoughts? Or maybe he knows he's not going to get a response but just bored and trying anyhow?
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Yeah, I see no problem in responding. You didn't do anything wrong. I think it's just personal preference in how you want to handle it.
The wyd guy...have you tried to tell him before? I really think it's just personal preference (whether you ignore someone completely, or block them, or outright be direct). I have been direct with guys before too, like I've said "stop contacting me," and they have listened. Not all guys are like that though, lol. Make that an experiment too, if you want, and see how he responds to you saying what you want to say. I see no problem with saying what you said you want to say to him. If he keeps saying "hey wyd" lol, after that, well, then maybe go with the blocking or taking a different course of action.