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May 18, 2018, 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted by starrysky
Yeah, I see no problem in responding. You didn't do anything wrong. I think it's just personal preference in how you want to handle it.
The wyd guy...have you tried to tell him before? I really think it's just personal preference (whether you ignore someone completely, or block them, or outright be direct). I have been direct with guys before too, like I've said "stop contacting me," and they have listened. Not all guys are like that though, lol. Make that an experiment too, if you want, and see how he responds to you saying what you want to say. I see no problem with saying what you said you want to say to him. If he keeps saying "hey wyd" lol, after that, well, then maybe go with the blocking or taking a different course of action.
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Actually, I really want to see how long he'll text me wyd with no response. So I guess I'll see what that does...it's not like there's any emotional connection here. He's clearly into the hookup and just bored. I doubt my non-response is hurting his feelings.
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