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May 18, 2018, 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37
I wouldn’t feel bad. Honestly, I’d probably be offended that someone thought I would be open to something like that. Who is going to say yes to “wyd?” at 11pm? What possible positive attributes does a text like that portray? Or what effort to woo? Or any interest in getting to know the person they are inviting? What must the guy think of the women he is texting that to? He must figure it’s a numbers game and is probably texting that to 20 women at once just to see if he can hook a fish for that night. I mean, it takes literally no effort to send that text on blast. Clearly, anyone deserving of on ‘s time is going to put in at least some effort to get to know you and make a positive impression.
I’m sure it is an amusing social experiment though to see...
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Okay, you made me feel better about watching and waiting on his behavior. I thought I was being kinda heartless, but you are absolutely right. He's most likely sending the same message to many different women waiting for someone to take the bait.
I'll let you know how many more messages I get. I think I could write a book about how to avoid players in online dating...
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Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
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