My husband has double standards and they usually come out when we're fighting. It drives me crazy and I don't know what to do. I'll give the example of tonight. We went to a ball game. It was pretty hot in the beginning and one of our babies kept crying because she's cutting a tooth and was tired. Plus our teenager was in a foul mood. So many things going on and my husband gets really pissy and keeps give me death looks. I'm in a great mood and excited for our night. Side note, when he's stressed about something he always takes it out on mainly be but sometimes the kids too. Anyway, several times, while we were disagreeing he told me to "so shut up" and "stop taking". By the end of the night I had had it and wasn't going to take it any more. (I'm a fighter and I know in these situations I should be nice and just go along with it instead of fighting back and making it worse). So I told him to shut up and stop talking and of course he gets really angry.

There are many things that I see him do and know if I did them he would tear me a new one. Half the time I point them out. I've told him