Having kids must increase the stress levels at times I imagine . I know it's what 80% of partners will do , but it shouldn't be discounted as complicating situations . You were in a good mood , one assumes your guy was pleased to be going to the ball game . One of your kids was in pain another being a pain which possibly complicated the outing . The way you describe it your guy certainly was wrong to be taking it out on you . If that's his pattern then he needs to take a look at himself and adjust his attitude . I'm only really going down this train of thought as I was in a store this morning picking up some golf balls for a game , my wife was at the salon getting her stuff done . We were scheduled to meet for lunch after . While I was waiting I was looking at a couple with way more kids than you would expect ( not sure if there was twins in there or something ? ) ***** was going on everywhere for them . Trying to stay out of the way with there prams , small child yelling , babies crying . The female looked as if she didn't have any blood in her face , her eyes lifeless just mechanically going about her business . The guy looked very agitated , trying to get some order amongst his troupe . They were exchanging looks which I wouldn't calling "loving" . I just watched them for a moment thinking , that must be tough at times .
I hope you and your guy have a chance to spend quality time together just being a couple on occasions . If you do it might be a perfect time to mention that your a team and there's no point in getting frustrated and nasty with each other ( even though he starts it )