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Originally Posted by Vibrating Obsidian
You're curious about a behavior you yourself commit?
The answers are literally in your hands then!
As for my opinion, I think it's a waste of time and a wrong way of talking things out. It's also unhelpful to lie to someone and say "you're fine" all the time since it doesn't help them solve relationship issues with you or perhaps others
See, I do not sugarcoat and say "You're fine". I tell my honest opinion. You can take it however you want, the choice is yours
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Well that but also there are times where I do not know if I did something, but due to the other person suddenly acting more distant, I will ask just in case. Maybe it was something I did, maybe not. And I understand it is not good to lie. I agree with you. I just mean if someone does a very minor thing, especially for the first time and they apologize immediately, I don’t see the point in making them feel even worse by snapping at them. I may hint at it but I won’t rudely snap at them. But yeah, honesty is the best policy. And I would want others to be honest with me as well.