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Old May 20, 2018, 05:03 PM
Shelbytamara Shelbytamara is offline
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Hello, I am just gonna get straight to it. I met my boyfriend a little over a year ago, he's really sweet and does a lot for me. But when I first met him his sister emailed me and told me to watch out, that he will chew me up and spit me out, and that he's cheated on every women hes ever dated. She painted him as a monster. I havent seen that side if him but i do know that hes had a real troubled past. I never told him what his sister said because i didn't want to hurt his feelings, but its always in the back of my mind. Should i tell him? Also He drank a lot when we first met but stopped, but now that he's working out of town he calls me and he's completely drunk, then when I see him he looks shot, wore out. He smokes like a chimney and coughs all of the time and I worry for his health. Part of me wants to leave because I deserve peace and I fear that his health is gonna fail. He's only 44 and is having problems already. There's so much more to this but I will post separate. Thanks everyone, I just don't know if I'm wasting my time and what I should do. Sucks cause we get along great.
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