For healing to begin...honesty is the best policy...or you just bullshhting and wasting your and her time and money.

I get the secretive DID thing because that is what it is...a personal secret inner society.

Hell, I’m embarrassed...but weren’t we the one wronged first? We didn’t choose this...or born this way...it was inflicted...it is a survival technique. Be strong and do what needs to be done. You so lucky that you do have a T....

Put your feelings aside and do the right thing....best of luck...jealous.