Oh man, I am so sorry, AY. First, about the text set up/let down and then the gay decision. I can't remember what we had been talking about, but it had seemed to me that my therapist referred to choosing orientation and I very plainly said that my understanding was that it's not a choice, and she backtracked, tried to say that's not what she meant. I said if it's a choice, I'm going with straight because it has all the perks society has to offer. Maybe what she'd been talking about was choosing to accept instead of deny orientation, but if so, she wasn't clear. For all the information and training available to therapists, you would think this would not be such a struggle to understand and communicate with clients about.

Anyway, I'm pissed for you that she talked you into texting and then just replied with an appointment confirmation. If it were me, I would feel had.